266 entries under "talk"

Is it funny, or is it hurtful and ppl are laughing to defuse the tension?

[Just like tickling, pseudo-comedy evokes laughter as listeners relieve discomfort and misinterprets their response as enjoyment.]

What’s your role in creating true systemic change?

[If you call yourself an ally to certain people and aren't getting hit by the stones thrown at them, you're not standing close enough.]

[Healing without allyship is spiritual bypassing and privilege. Protesting and organizing without healing will undermine the efforts you support. Protest without litigation becomes self-serving, and litigation without protest lacks teeth. Critique without counter-growth creates burnout. Building systems without addressing the ugliness of the current one is detached.

3.5% of the population can shift the entire political reality of a nation.

[Protests spark a sense of possibility and can easily bring newcomers to want more.]

We interviewed the Mozart of Gen Z - Colin and Samir

[Your heroes make things possible.]

[Finding your voice involves trying stuff; not possible to 'contribute' by waiting to find your voice first.]

[Try making the worst song ever.]

[A question culture versus answee culture.]

[Questions last longer than answers.]

[My room is my spaceship and I can command it to go wherever I want. My job is to tune in to the internal weather: what's turning me on today?]

Jacob Collier edits his own videos?

Twilight

[Desire always implies you don't have it.]

[Trills are like musical edging.]

[Disavowal let's someone get what they are afraid to want and without risk of exposure that comes from asking.]

How to make the most of the garlic you buy from the store!

[Feed soil with dry garlic skins.]

for the chronic criticizers

[When someone always criticizes you: 1) ask if was meant for you or if they just wanted to hear it out loud; 2) ask "how am I supposed to do that?" to tease out whether they have actually thought about it practically; and 3) confirm that "what I'm hearing is…" to clarify if there's anything constructive.]

Let's talk about what an iconic photo can tell us about Border Patrol....

Fixed fortifications are a monument to the stupidity of man.

Collective intelligence with Conor White-Sullivan

[Your past self is another person.]

quick tips for difficult conversations

[Have a difficult conversation by: 1) avoiding small talk or "how are you?" and starting with "thanks for making the time to speak with me"; 2) state that you need help with what to do or feel about the subject; and 3) finish by sharing that you feel settled or like the direction, and then ask "how about you?"]

Phenology, Time and Synchronization

[Befriending a bird, the news spreads to other animals.]

[We refer to plants in English as "whats" and "its", implying an object, rather than "whos", implying living beings.]

What would it mean to speak a language thousands of years older than English?

Let's talk about a gofundme for Trump....

[Someone working at $15 per hour wanting to raise 355 million dollars would have had to start in the year 678, BC, and that assumes a twenty-four hour workday with no weekends or holidays.]

for when something feels off

[When someone's lying to you: 1. tell them you need to come back to the conversation (and walk away); 2. say "something feels off"; 3. simply wait, as it makes dishonesty uncomfortable.]

your defense against yelling.

[Add pauses around your verbs to appear more controlled in your speaking.]

17 Foreign Words English Desperately Needs

[Abbiocco: Italian for 'food coma'.]

[Schnapsidee: German for stupid ideas, like arranging furniture late at night while drunk.]

[Ubuntu: Zulu for "I am because we are."]

[Sommer: Afrikaans for "just because".]

[Tartle: Scottish for not remembering the name of someone you just met.]

[Mamilhapinatapai: Yámana for everyone wanting the same but noone acting on it.]

[Treppenwitz (staircase wit): German for thinking of a comeback too late.]

Jacob Collier Answers Instrument & Music Theory Questions From Twitter

I aspire to talk this deeply, fast, and fun.

1.8 Million Subscribers (and no one cares)

[Musicians can play until they're 98 years old and beyond, but nobody wants a YouTuber doing that.]

[Not making an industry money puts you in a somewhat adversarial relationship.]

[The YouTuber career inevitably ends in burnout.]

[YouTubers have no elders, only peers, and this is isolating. Musicians have those who have been doing it longer than them, and a community in the real world to engage with.]

how to respond to passive aggression

[Respond to passive aggressiveness by: 1. clarifying if that was 'meant to be helpful or hurtful'?; 2. stating when you observe negative tone even when they claim to mean it positively; and 3. acknowledging that it's okay to not be okay and communicate that it's a safe space.]

Let's talk about changing American foreign policy....

[Build power for yourself and your community instead of borrowing it from elected officials.]

[If you want to make a difference in areas where the USA invades, you're better off buying solar panels or an electric car because it helps shift the dynamics to not require the resources for that intervention.]

Growing your own food is the highest form of meditation.

[Soak cardboard in water for fifteen minutes, wrap around a glass jar, and remove just before dry. Use as a plant pot and place in soil to prevent root interference.]

How to save money and making a homemade cleaning spray out of lime peels!

[Chop finished lime peels and put into a spray bottle, add 1/2 cup cup white vinegar, 1 tsp salt, a bit of dish soap, and fill the rest with water. Shake and spray for a nice household cleaner.]