[A lifelong commitment to yourself.]

[The relationship, not either of the people, is the client, and needs counsel.]

[Invent agreements for right after the breakup, for six weeks later, for six months later.]

[Put aside future tripping: will this lead to sex? Who cares? The two of you are in the moment, feeling your feet.]

[Sexiness is about how you feel, not how you look.]

[Sexually successful people masturbate.]

[Try masturbating simultaneously with your lover in the same room, it could be a turn on or a way to learn their patterns of pleasure.]